What is sex? What is fucking?
"I define sex literally – getting your sex organs off with one or more other individuals. This can happen with your hands, with a penis, a vagina, a book, a banana, whatever. When I think of fucking, I think of the motion, and I think any act that exists within that motion (e.g., humping or something) is fucking. I guess I also associate with fucking having someone or something inside me. Like, I don’t consider a blow job “fucking” although I think it can qualify as “sex.”"
"Having sex: anything that involves sexual activity. It's possible to have sex in a conversation---and it doesn't have to be like phone sex. Discussing sex with a room full of people is a form of having sex: socially acceptable and masquerading as cocktail party chit-chat. It's how we can get off with strangers and not feel guilty or fear we've gotten clap. When does sex play become fucking?: it's all fucking."
"I think there's a level of passion and attraction that comes with fucking versus making love or just having sex. I guess fucking is the most primal version of sex with someone you get to. It's the dirty rough sex that people enjoy having. It's the sex that makes you really sore the next day...not just a little sore, but REALLY sore. But it's an enjoyable sore, not the sore you have after having bad sex...lol."
"[When a gay person has lost their virginity is a point] That's really more a matter of opinion and belief than anything. And almost a state of mind. You've lost your virginity when you do something that makes you believe you have. That could be touching another man for the first time. It could be blowing someone, fucking someone, or being fucked. For me, I just sorta lost it somewhere. I cant say when or where because one day I just stopped thinking of myself as one."
"Fucking is defined by eroticism and I assume penetration. But then again, some people are much in the mood for that, so I wonder how they get their jollies on? I think they do therefore they are having sex. But then again that’s too Descartes for my liking."
"when one or both have orgasms. fucking is anal penetration, but I suppose that a person can also get that same feeling from a very violent blow job."
"When I was eighteen I had a random encounter with a girl next to a pirate-themed golf course...I had gone to a diner down the street from the motel alone. This girl saw me sitting at a table alone, thought I was 'so interesting' and took me to her car. I think that one night stands can be as important as relationships, so long as you learn something about yourself."
"How do you define 'having sex'? What is the act that makes sex play 'fucking'? I'm not really positive on whats being asked?"
"Gay men I think have varying opinions on this subject; I think if two gay men get off in the same room it is sex. Penetration isn’t necessary. Because of the AIDS crisis some men feel that anal sex isn’t an option, because it is not worth the risk. I personally just don’t find it an important part of my sex life. It can be enjoyable, but it isn’t something you want everyday. I find, for me, it is much like Long John Silvers. I want it once or twice a year, and I totally enjoy it, but I always overdo it and feel a little too full.
Fucking is more about intention than action. People fuck and, and they have sex, and they make love. A one-night stand is fucking, after six months you’re having sex, and after a year your making love; yet that doesn’t mean that you can’t digress into the other two categories over time. You can be with someone for thirty years and still just fuck the shit outta them. Fucking is a form of expression; it is expressing that you are horny."
"Having sex: anything that involves sexual activity. It's possible to have sex in a conversation---and it doesn't have to be like phone sex. Discussing sex with a room full of people is a form of having sex: socially acceptable and masquerading as cocktail party chit-chat. It's how we can get off with strangers and not feel guilty or fear we've gotten clap. When does sex play become fucking?: it's all fucking."
"I think there's a level of passion and attraction that comes with fucking versus making love or just having sex. I guess fucking is the most primal version of sex with someone you get to. It's the dirty rough sex that people enjoy having. It's the sex that makes you really sore the next day...not just a little sore, but REALLY sore. But it's an enjoyable sore, not the sore you have after having bad sex...lol."
"[When a gay person has lost their virginity is a point] That's really more a matter of opinion and belief than anything. And almost a state of mind. You've lost your virginity when you do something that makes you believe you have. That could be touching another man for the first time. It could be blowing someone, fucking someone, or being fucked. For me, I just sorta lost it somewhere. I cant say when or where because one day I just stopped thinking of myself as one."
"Fucking is defined by eroticism and I assume penetration. But then again, some people are much in the mood for that, so I wonder how they get their jollies on? I think they do therefore they are having sex. But then again that’s too Descartes for my liking."
"when one or both have orgasms. fucking is anal penetration, but I suppose that a person can also get that same feeling from a very violent blow job."
"When I was eighteen I had a random encounter with a girl next to a pirate-themed golf course...I had gone to a diner down the street from the motel alone. This girl saw me sitting at a table alone, thought I was 'so interesting' and took me to her car. I think that one night stands can be as important as relationships, so long as you learn something about yourself."
"How do you define 'having sex'? What is the act that makes sex play 'fucking'? I'm not really positive on whats being asked?"
"Gay men I think have varying opinions on this subject; I think if two gay men get off in the same room it is sex. Penetration isn’t necessary. Because of the AIDS crisis some men feel that anal sex isn’t an option, because it is not worth the risk. I personally just don’t find it an important part of my sex life. It can be enjoyable, but it isn’t something you want everyday. I find, for me, it is much like Long John Silvers. I want it once or twice a year, and I totally enjoy it, but I always overdo it and feel a little too full.
Fucking is more about intention than action. People fuck and, and they have sex, and they make love. A one-night stand is fucking, after six months you’re having sex, and after a year your making love; yet that doesn’t mean that you can’t digress into the other two categories over time. You can be with someone for thirty years and still just fuck the shit outta them. Fucking is a form of expression; it is expressing that you are horny."
