Violence

"I have [experienced violence]. Most when I have gotten very drunk and get curious. Once in New Orleans, I fisted a guy in the bathroom of a bar. I really am not into violent and "kinky" stuff. I've really try to "screen" my tricks before anything happens."




"I’ve definitely done things I wasn’t really comfortable with, but I’ve never really felt like I was forced to do those things. Members of my family have been victims of severe sexual violence/ abuse, which has given me kind of a weird perspective on it. Seeing how it has messed up my family members’ heads, it has raised a lot of questions for me about sex in general. If you were punched in the face, or beat nearly to death by a stranger, you would be pissed and upset, etc. But if you were sexually harassed, assaulted, or raped (even only one time) it seems like the mental and emotional devastation is much more serious – I guess my question is what is it about sex that makes it this way?"




"I do engage in S&M and auto-erotic asphyxiation , but I've been having to warm [my boyfriend] up to it. He's very understanding about it."




"Strong women are sexy. Women that could potentially sodomize me, not so much..."